this is really hard as i have only told myself what im doing to myself is not right its hard to actally admit that i might have a problem but i have started to open up about my troubles with food. i feel like my bf is finding it really hard hes very supportive and made me go to my local youth place to get some advise but lately hes been angry with me i no he dnt mean to and i no im hurting him and i say im fine and he says "u pretent ur fine but ur not fine i want u to be fine like u use to be" this brakes my heart as im not fine and i wish i woz and i dnt no how hes going to deal with me trying to fight my habits with food. he does things i wish he wouldnt do like put food in my face and he brought a dessert and got arsey when i sed no to it and i snaped he sed he only done it cuz he wantd to see me smile like i use to and at the time i h8 him 4 it but i love him and hes just tyrin to help but hes really noti dnt want to have this ****** problem anymore its affecting are relationship and i dnt want to hurt the person i love anymore sorry to bang on just fed up with it and so iz he y cnt i b ****** normal!!
Reply post 1: Hi Nina07
written by:flowergirl
posted: 18.06.2008 message:
I am sorry things are not going to well.
Your boyfriend sounds like a really nice lad I wish I had someone like that but I can totally understand why he annoys you. It must really hurt him to see you suffering cos he sounds like he loves you but really does'nt know what to do for the best.
Why dont u try being more open with him I think that sounds like what he wants.I know its hard though.
I wish you all the best and here if you want to talk,
Jennyxx
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written by:brunette
posted: 20.06.2008 message:
hey nina,
i agree that your boyfriend sounds really decent. And i can understand your problem. My friends and my brother used to do that type of thing.. pushing food in my face, and using the fact that i wouldnt eat as ammo to use against me during fights. It not nice, and i understand that when u love them so much its hard to be hurting them when u cant help it/ dont want to.
I put most of it down to the fact that he doesnt understand ED's completely. My family etc didnt. Try and talk to him/ be more open, even if he still doesnt understant. At least your approaching the problem and trying to work through it rather than starting more fights. Try to get him to understand that you dont want to have this problem, its not just some crazy diet, but its a psycological thing.
Also, maybe try and use this as a way to fight your ED. You'll find that things will improve and you can do more things (eg. go out and eat whatever you want etc) once youve overcome it. and you'll both be much happier!!
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sorry to bang on just fed up with it and so iz he y cnt i b ****** normal!! 
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