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oh hun i'm so sorry you've been through this

i really think you need to report this guy, especially if he's still trying to contact you, it's not safe for you to be exposed to him. i know it's scary but i think you'll feel a lot more free than you do now. he is a sick, twisted pig who doesn't deserve to walk free. please try and find the courage to tell someone, we are all here to support you with it all but it might help to talk to someone in person who can hold your hand and let you know that you're never alone in life.

never accept an apology from him and never think you deserved it, it was a nasty thing to happen and you are clearly very upset, you don't deserve to be tormented with guilt any longer, because it wasn't your fault!

stay strong hun and let me know how you're doing. xox 

oh thanks thats really sweat but i carnt report him

hey, im so so sorry you have to deal with such a huge burden, and that youve gone through such a thing.

this guy is a B******

You can report him, no matter who the guy is. This person has done something horrible and unforgivable. Its not your fault and you shouldnt have to go through such a thing and have to deal with the guilt!

Stay stong and positive. Dont let him win. You deserve to be free from this!

(sorry, i know that what i said may not help your situation, and that it may sound pushy.But no one has such a right over you)

godd luck. XXX

were here to talk and not to be judgemental if you need it.

what is stopping you from reporting him, you don't need to be scared hun, this is one way to take back your life from all the horrible things that have happened and make it good again.

it might be helpful to tell someone though, so that if you do get scared then they will understand and can support you.

are you worried that he will try and do something? or do you think that you deserved it? because you didn't, i can promise you that. sometimes eds push you into destructive relationships to shatter your self esteem and draw you towards the nastiness even more, this is not something you should give in to and i would love to see you feeling positive and finding the light at the end of the tunnel because you DON'T have to live your life this way. things can be better :)

please stay strong beautiful, you are an amazing person and i wish you could see that for yourself.

take care xox 

thanks but i cant do anything about it

oh hun please try and talk to someone about it, even if it's not reporting him just yet, please please please tell someone, i can't bear the thought of you going through this alone, you are worth so much more than this and i so wish you could see that!

you can do something about it, i know it seems scary now, but as soon as you get it off your chest the first time it will get easier, you're stronger than you know and you CAN do this.

i wish i could make you feel better i really do but i just don't know how because it's easier in person but just for the record i am always here to talk if you ever need anything, i promise you i will never judge you or make you feel bad about anything.

take care gorgeous xox 

hey sweetheart

i was sexually assaulted in 2004,   i think thts one(of many) reasons i develpoed ana...     i know how horrible it is. i felt i would never be clean. i thought it was "prob my fault anyway". i though no one would believe me (the bastard was a close family "friend"). i thought i desreved it. that i had "asked for it" .    fortunately, my best mate knew something was up- and pestered me on and on for over a month, b4 i finally broke down in tears.      she helped me and insisted i told my rents. they were so so so good. i thought they would have been angry at me for saying such things. but the first thing my mum did was hug me. we cried for like what seemed forever. my dad immediately phoned our local police. and i made a stament.   the whole thing went to court and the guy pleaded not guilty until the final day when i think he knew no one believed him- where he changed his plea to guilty. he got sent down.    i cant tell u how much it is a relief to know he is getting punished-  ok so he will never hurt as much as i hurt.     and to be honest i feel no glee in the fact he has bn put away.  i still feel shame and grief about the whole situ.  but having bn able to talk about it all was the best thing that my mate made me do!     please try and tell someone. it will just eat u up otherwise. its fuel for ur ed,    this git has allready hurt you so much. dont let him keep hurting you-  as he will be doing every time he tries to contact u,   and everyday you keep him safe from justice.      babes,  why do u feel u cant tell someone?     please try and tell us a bit,  so we can help you, and support you.   i know how annoying it is to try and talk to others, who will never know how u feel- cos they have neva bn there themselves-   but huni,  there r ppl who have. u rnt alone.     please please, let ppl help you. u dont have to fight ny of this on ur own!

allways here to talk  x x x

y cant you do nething about it?

If u need 2 tlk im here

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(((balletbun))) Congrats to you for being so brave and not letting him win,

(((nanoranbow))) stay strong, and in your own time please try and tell someone, we all are here for you and just want to see you get the justice and freedom that you deserve!! Your beautiful and brilliant and brave and owe it to yourself to be free from this burden.

were all here for you.

xx