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written by: flowergirl
posted: 21.08.2008
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I cant do this! I just got my results I have done so C**P!

I dont know what to do! I feel ashamed of myself like I am not worth anything! I am thick and everyone knows it now!!! I am just thick!

Biology - E

Chemisty- E

English Language -B

English Lit - C

Childcare- C

Maths - C

Physics- D

ICT- C

RE- B

Things would have been so much different if this Stupid ED never came into my life. I wanted better than is for me but its done now and there is nothing I can do!

I wish you all the best of luck who are getting there GCSE´s today!!!

xxxx


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written by: bexyboo
posted: 21.08.2008
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heyyyaaa

dont worry hunnie, youve still got lots of c's so youll be fine!

it is good that you think the ed is stupid which means you wanna recover right?

and feeling as if you wanna get rid of it, believe, me you will get rid of it with lots of determeination =]]stay strong xxxx


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written by: xperrin
posted: 21.08.2008
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hun you HAVENT done badly!!

Honestly, you have had so much to go up against its amazing what youve come out with, your grades are fantastic!

I know its hard especially if you feel you could have done better without the ED but use that as motivation to not let this stop you getting the grades you deserve in the future, you can start again with college or sixth form or work or whatever youre going to go on to do, whatever it is you will be doing what YOU want and you can put your energy into that rather than having it taken away by the ED.

Dont let it beat you!

WELL DONE for your results, you really have done fantastcially even if you cant see it!!

Take care xox 


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written by: shabba
posted: 21.08.2008
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Hun, you have done so well :)

I was extremely ill when I took my GCSE's and I only mananged 4 of them. You did alll your GCSE's and did fantastically well in the circumstances. You should be proud of yourself. I would LOVE to have gotten to results you did. Well done sweetie x


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written by: x dance lover x
posted: 21.08.2008
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Hey!

I totally agree with what everybody else has said! You havnt done bad at all! You've got B's and C's which is amazing especially with all you've had to deal with. You really have nothing to worry about, I know people who have got similar results and some worse and they havnt had anywhere near everything you've had to deal with.

Hold your head high and be proud of yourself because its a fantastic set of results =]

xxxx


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written by: flowergirl
posted: 21.08.2008
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Hiya!

Wow I am so grateful for your responce it was so Lovely that you all care! I am feeling better now thanks I realise that even to do my GCSE´S I was lucky !

Thanks for all your support and encouragement!

Take care of yourselves,

Love Jennyxxx


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written by: fight_for_life
posted: 22.08.2008
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Hey gorgeous!

Oh darling don't worry about your exams, at least you know your results!!!  I was supposed to ring up the school today between 10am-1pm and I chickened out.

I'm so S*** scared, I actually can't do it.  Instead I've now put myself under even more pressure prolonging the agony and waiting for them to be posted.  Apparently they post them out quickly, perhaps even by tomorrow morning, but I don't know, and I'm totally freaking out.

The thing is, when I did my exams I was at my worst, living on ridiculously next to nothing calories and not sleeping at all!  I mean, every day was a debate as to whether I was allowed to take them or not, I so nearly went back a year, so surely just doing them should be an achievement?

However, I've never failed an exam in my life, my school work has been the one thing I have always known I will succeed in, and now I KNOW I've failed and I'm SO scared, I don't know what to do!  Even when the results come I don't know how I will not just burn them and not read them...

I'm sorry I'm being so silly, and here you are upset!  Don't listen to me.  Hun, it's great that you did your exams, and you passed most of them, which is more than I will do, and you should be so proud of yourself!

Well done sweetheart!

love you lots

Caitlin

xxxxx


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written by: Steph1
posted: 22.08.2008
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babe u got 6 A-C's I know it doesnt feel like it but thats gr8. You can get into LOADS of colleges with those grades and if ur woried about ur sciences, u have options. You could tell them about ur ED and they will take it into account and remark it, secondly you could just ask 4 them to be remarked and if that doesnt work, you can always re-do them in college. Ur life is not over babes. Keep your head up I promise it will look better with time.

Im 20 now and in uni. Wen I was in school doin gcse's I passed out twice on my desk in my science and math exams cos id been sooo stressed id started restricting thinking it wud make me feel better.....stupid i know. so my grades were c**p but I redid them in college and even tho it took me three years, I ended up with 4 A-level and 5 AS-Levels. I got into 10 universities and i applied 4 english lan and lit degrees, medicine and nursing. i only got 3 conditional offers the rest were unconditional, eventually I chose nusing and medicine after. it took me an extra year but, my life is set now. Trust me the grades are NEVER as bad as they make out.

Keep your head up, you'll get there.

XxXx


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written by: xperrin
posted: 22.08.2008
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Hun of course we care about you!

It would be ahrd not to seeing as youre SO supportive to everyone else on here, youre an amazing girl!

Im glad your efeeling better about your grades, its an amazing achievement to have done what youve done so never put yourself down, just look to the future :)

Take care darling xox 


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written by: flowergirl
posted: 23.08.2008
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Hiya!

I am so grateful for all your replys thats so nice!!! I am tearful its so lovely!

Catliin-Hun I wish u all the best in your results! Hun remember like u said to me just doing them is an achievment! I am kind of in the same situation to you I have always took pride in my school work and done well and had high expectations of myself.I could have got A*s if I had really really pushed it but its hard cos I was ill! Thats what hurts the most knowing what could have been! Hun your not being silly at all! Remember there are still loads of options out there for u!U going to collage? You have done so well no matter of what your result!!!!! Take care and thankyou so much for the support!!! Let me know how u do if u want and we can talk about it but hun remember what an amazing person you are xxxx

Steph1- Wow u are so inspiring! I am so worried about collage I have got a place on a nursing course that will be an access course into uni to train in mental health nursing. U have done so amazing and you are a real inspiration to me!I was worried that them GCSE'S were like setting out my life and I  would be kind of labeled as being stupid and I dont want people to think "ah bless her she has done so well cos she has got an ed" you know what I mean I want to prove to everyone and myself I guess! Wow u got into 10 unis you must be really clever! Thanks for all your support!!! xx

xperrin-Thankyou so much you are amazing too!!! Thankyou I like to support everyone on here as much as possible we all understand each other! I am perfectioist I guess and I just need to think about what I have achieved! I am really really scared about collage !  want a good life for myself so I guess I will just have to think really carefully! I thought I had my life planned out but my ED came in and ruined it but I know actualy now that my ED has improved my life cos I have met a wonderful lad and I would go through it all again to meet him and I have become stronger! I need to think of the postives!!! Thankyou for your support it means a lot ! I hope your doing great!

x dance loverx- Thankyou for your support it means a lot! I am normally a real opimist but I just feel I have let myself down! But you are right and I know that like you say that people will have got worse even when they have'nt been through what I have and your right I know that now and I just dont want people to think I am thick! U know what I mean? I always had high expectations for myslef! It will be ok though and I hope your ok too! Dont think we have spoke before! Your name suggest you like dance I love dance too!!!! XX

bexyboo-Hiya thanks for all your support and yeah I am a nearly recovered anorexic I just want it out of my life.When I took my GCSE's I was quite ill so I dont think this helped at all.And the stress of collage and feeling like I have done bad has taken its toll and  I have lost weight I just want the ED GONE! When i think its gone it just creeps up again but I WILL get a life without it I am sure of that and I am so close I wont give in! I try to think of the ED as making me stronger and think of the postives rather than the negatives .How are you doing? and thanks for all your support!

Shabba-Thankyou for you support! Hun dont put yourself down you still did u gcse's! Do u go to collage? I am really worried about collage! ? cos I dont want people to think "ah she has done so well cos she has got an ed" at collage? I nealry did all my gcse's I was doing 13 but could'nt cope! Hope your ok!

Let me know how u all are and thanks again!!!!!!!

LoveJennyxxxxxx


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written by: x dance lover x
posted: 23.08.2008
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Hey Jenny!

Yeah, I know what you mean but dont worry, i can assure you that people wont be thinking you're thick with your brill set of results =]

Nope I havnt spoken to you before but it's great to meet you!

Take Care!

xxxx


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written by: Steph1
posted: 23.08.2008
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Aw babe u are lovely, but ive gota say I am not clever, I just work Reaaaaaallllly hard till I breakdown lol. you have to be a lile bit crazy to be a genious and theres a small line between being insane and being a genious.

Yes I did well, but thats because I let work and studying and bulimia become my life as usual and it let me succeed not that thats a good thing but i got through. As u will only u'll be better because by then ud have beaten the stupid ED lol

XxXx


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written by: flowergirl
posted: 23.08.2008
message:

Hiya!

Was great to meet u too!

And thanks!

You take care too!

XXXX


Reply post 13: (No Subject)

written by: flowergirl
posted: 25.08.2008
message:

Hiya Steph!!!

Thanks again!

I wish u all the best for the future!

Love Jennyxxx


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