anyone got any advice?

hiya hun,

im danielle, im 15 n im a christian. i was ana for abt 5/6 months til God healed me in jan.

if u dont mind me askin wot ED do u fink u hav? the best advice i hav is to tell ppl n talk abt it. uve done reali well postin on here n it can help just to rite it out cos as u sed u bottle it all up n it helps to let it out.

also try tellin someone abt it. ur family or close friends. or if ur strong enuf a teacher, skool counsiller/ nurse or go n c ur gp. i no its reali hard tellin ppl abt it but its the best fing to do n tellin ur gp shud get u some proffessional help but even just tellin a friend can giv u support.

im always here if u need to talk hun n ill pray for u. stay strong hunni.

Danielle xxx

thanks,

urm anorexia, i've told like two of my closest friends and they're just trying to help me through but they don't understand what it is like and what im going through.

hells x

heya hun

its alrite. i had also had ana so i understand wot its lyk.

well done for tellin ur friends hun, i no how hard tellin someone abt ana is. ur lucky to hav them to support u even if they dont reali understand its helpful to hav ppl there for u.

tellin an adult wud b a gud fing to do tho n u cud ask ur friends to go wiv u or even speak to someone for u tho its betta if u do it urself or u cud rite a letter to someone if thts easier.

let me no how fings go n lyk i sed im always here if u need me even just to let everyfin out on me i dont mind if thts wot helps u n ill keep prayin for u.

Danielle xxx 

yeh i might write something down as i find it hard to talk to people about, even with my friend i usually end up in tears or just refusing to talk about whats really going on and how i feel. i tend to avoid the situation if i can and most people don't think theres anything wrong as i binge when i feel the need to, so no one really notices, which doesnt help as i tend to bottle it up even more and try to be "normal" in away

hells

xxx

heya hun,

even if u rite someone a letter abt how u feel wots reali goin on n say u want some help tht wud b a reali gud fing to do n u can keep it til ur confident n u can invite her round or go somewhere on ur own so it doesnt matter if u cry n it mite actully help if u hav a cry cos it can let out some of the stuff ur bottlin up.

somefin i got out of a selfesteem bk my youth worker gav me was journalin. most nites i rite abt wot ive done n how stuff made me feel, i can b totally honest cos no one else sees it so i can say woteva i want n it helps to get stuff out n express urself.

if u keep just tryin to bottle it up hunni it wont help plz try n tell someone, if u try n pretend its all ok when its not u wont b able to cope. u reali need someone u can just tell stuff to, hus there for u.

hun if u eva need to let it all out on me or hav a rant i dont mind at all i used to some on here n just let it all out sometyms cos it reali helps so im here if u need me. ill keep prayin for u. stay strong hunni.

Danielle xxx

thanks hun, sorry i havent replied sooner things have been a bit busy but took into account some your advice and im feeling better as a person so hopefully after i have finished my exams i can concentrate on actually getting over this.

helen xxx

heya,

it ok, im glad its helped hunni n im glad ur feelin betta

it must b reali hard for u atm wiv ur ed n exams. im in yr 10 so i hav mainly only modules but i hav my actual re in a couple of wks in ive had this crap teacher for 2 yrs n i dont no anyfin so i recon i mite fail lol

hunni i hope ur exams go well n make sure u eat enuf to concentrate, ull regret it if u dont. if u eva want some more help or just wanna talk im always here.

good luck beautiful

Danielle xxx

hey

thanks, good luck with your re, ive got mine on wednesday, is a complete joke, o well,

and thanks again you've helped me so much and hopefully i will be able to keep myself at this point.

xxxx

heya,

yep ive got re on wednesday too n 2 german modules on mon which i do actually care abt n english coursewk for tues so spent most of 2day doin tht n will probs b up late revisin for german, its jsut all come at once.

its fine i try n b here for anyone hu needs me n im glad ive helped. how r u doin ED wise atm? always here n prayin for u

stay strong beautiful

Danielle xxx

hey,

urm, getting better. slow process but im getting there and you dont know how much it means to me that i can talk to you thanks love

helen xxx

heya hunni,

its absolutely fine, i no how much it means to hav the support so i just post on here to help others cos i understand wot goin thru an ED is lyk.

im glad to here ur gettin betta even if it is slow. other than me r u still goin thru this alone?

hunni if u wanna talk abt stuff oother than EDs than we can, always here for u, n prayin for u

stay strong beautiful

Danielle xxx

hey,

urm yeah apart from you and a couple of friends i am still going thru this alone, but i feel like i dont need to tell anyone atm because im getting there, but if it does get worse again i will reach out further for help.

helen

x

p.s. how did your re go?

heya,

its ur chioce but if u feel ur gettin betta thts great just mak sure u do do somefin if u start goin downhill

i fink my re went quite well actually dispite sittin it wiv a headache

glad ur gettin betta n ill keep prayin for u

stay strong beautiful

Danielle xxx

gah is it normal to have bad days? i've been hungrey but physically can't eat. i've been fine but today it just hit me hard and i feel really bad.

egh sorry hun.

helen

x

hiya,

yep some days u will b stronger than others. if u do hav a bad day just try n pick urself up agen n try n mak the nxt day a gud one.

hunni if u get hungry u shud eat n i no its so hard but u need food. i often felt lyk i cudnt physically eat, i just cudnt bring myself to eat but sometyms i cud brong myslef to ring my youth worker hu wud mak me eat even tho i didnt want to n even tho ana argued bak but she nearly always got a bit of somefin in me.

hunni if it keeps happenin tht u cant ovacome ana n eat then u need to seek help before ana gets to strong cos i no an Ed can quickly go from u bein in control n u totally bein controlled by the ED.

u dont need to b sorri hun, i no its the ED makin u do this not u

ill pray for u lots hunni

stay strong beautiful

Danielle xxx